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it's the end of the world as you know it

  • Dec. 21st, 2012 at 12:01 AM
blutsauger
girl power

bye-bye silent stalkers. all the goodies now contained within.

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the amish take on disability

  • Jun. 20th, 2009 at 6:06 PM
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E N Q U I R E R   O P I N I O N
Sunday, June 06, 1999

Disabilities are not disabling for Amish



 

BY DEBORAH KENDRICK
Enquirer contributor

        FARMERSTOWN, Ohio — We know we are in the right place when the frequency of white frame houses increases. We know because there is an absence of curtains, an absence of electric wires and an absence of automobiles.

        Before long, we meet a horse and buggy, then another, and yet another. We have found our way into an Amish community.

        Disability happens in every culture and every socioeconomic group. The Amish — quaint, admirable people who keep the ”old ways” of farming and making utilitarian goods by hand — are no exception. They are, however, good teachers of how disability should be viewed.

        “Disabled people?” one Amish traveler mused. “No, I don't think we have any... Oh, well, there's the fellow who can't hear, but we just write everything we need to say to him in church. And there's the fellow who can't walk, but we just made a ramp to bring his wheelchair into his store.”

        Syl and Clara Hershberger are marvelous examples of how the Amish take on disabilities. He's blind; she has had one leg amputated. Together they run a successful Amish business.

        “We heard that the owner here was blind and wondered if we could speak with him,” we tell the woman outside Farmerstown Book and Broom.

        She sticks her head in the shop door, has a brief conversation, and urges us to go on in. “Is Mr. Hershberger your relative,” I ask our hostess as she points the way. “I should think so,” she says. “He's my husband.”

        Syl Hershberger has as many questions as answers and is happy to tell his tale.

        Like all Amish children, he went to school only until the eighth grade. But he attended the Ohio State School for the Blind, a residential school in Columbus. Traveling to and from school on the Greyhound, he gained independent traveling skills — the same skills that today enable him to walk unaided with his white cane into town for the Tuesday livestock sale, where he sets up a table selling his books, handmade brooms, and assorted novelties.

        In the shop the rest of the week, responsibilities are evenly divided between Mr. Hershberger and his wife, who lost her leg several years ago in a farm machinery accident.

        There is no talking cash register here. In fact, no cash register of any sort. A simple drawer for cash and receipts and a box on his table on Tuesdays is all Mr. Hershberger needs.

The old-fashioned way
        Shelves of the tiny shop are crammed with books — both Amish and “English” books on religion, Amish culture and history — as well as an odd assortment of novelties and sundries from home remedies to cotton socks. With pride he demonstrates the broom-making machine — the same machine he has used for 30 years.

        On his desk is a mechanical braille writer he uses to record broom sales. Other accounts are kept by Mrs. Hershberger in paper ledgers.

        “I got a letter asking if we were Y2K compliant,” Mrs. Hershberger quips, “and I asked myself, "What do they think? We have no computer, no telephone, no electricity. Of course we're ready!'”

        Like many Amish couples, the Hershbergers live in a home built by friends and neighbors. Mr. Hershberger proudly explains how he designed it himself.

        All the doors are wide, he says, to accommodate his buddies in wheelchairs. The toilet (yes, they have running water) is a distance from the wall to allow one wheelchair-using friend space to turn around.

        Because they are shopkeepers, the couple doesn't work much on the family farm. Mr. Hershbergeris surprised, though, when asked if he did farm chores growing up as a blind child.

        Of course he did. He had the same chores as his siblings — bailing the hay, tending the vegetables, doing his part.

        We English, as the Amish call us, are so sophisticated. Yet, our unemployment rate is 70 percent among those with disabilities.

        These simple farmers and craftspeople have a 0 percent unemployment rate for disabled and nondisabled alike. They have to think to figure out which is which. Their main concern is figuring out how to get the job done.

        Cincinnati writer Deborah Kendrick is a nationally recognized advocate for people with disabilities. Write her at Cincinnati Enquirer, Tempo, 312 Elm St., Cincinnati 45202. E-mail: dkendrick@enquirer.com


reason to party

  • Mar. 28th, 2009 at 2:24 PM
blutsauger

i just posted in the communities and this cocktail is so tasty i want it here too.

there's reason to celebrate.  :D






raspberry margaritas

4 cups frozen unsweetened raspberries, slightly thawed
1 1/2  cups freshly squeezed lime juice
3/4 cup sugar, more to coat rims
1 cup tequila
1 cup triple sec
5 cups crushed ice
1 lime wedge

in a blender, combine raspberries, lime juice & sugar. whirl until puréed. rub purée through a fine strainer set over a glass measure; discard seeds. stir in tequila and triple sec. put half of the crushed ice in the blender with half of the raspberry mix; blend. rub rims of glassess with lime wedge. pour a thin layer of sugar into a shallow dish. dip rims into sugar & pour margaritas. serve cold.

hair styles

  • Nov. 29th, 2008 at 1:35 PM
legs
so, hair!

i've been meaning to make an entry on hair. being tired of the same old styles on myself, i've been looking at hair communities and collecting some dos i find inspiring, interesting or just beautiful.



these 6 are utterly swiss missy, of course, even though they call it grecian style and it *is* very greek goddess-like. my hair is long enough to do this now so these are inspiring.



i love the idea of the first one here but think it would look better on dark hair? no 3 is closest to my mane at the moment. 4 is just cute [especially on her!], love the waviness. the up-dos are just classic and beautiful.



these 'twists' are super cool but i have no idea how to achieve the effect.




1 is so cute and messy, so is yorkshire terrier girl in no 3. i love the golden haarspange.

anyone got any favorites? ^ ^

liebesbrief... auf meinem nachtflug

  • Nov. 13th, 2008 at 4:04 AM
party kitty


i realize this would be *far less impressive without advanced german skills... but wow. every time i hear it, the lyrics just blow me away. he's a tad too 'emo-esque' for me usually but this is nice and it flows. hypnotic.